The fact is when your at a different place in your life then other people aka the people around you . You try to encourage them to find out it's a waste of your time because they are stuck and unhappy and don't see a way out .
When you are making milestone and don't brag about them people with something society deems valuable they tend to think their life is so much better than yours.
All I can say is I will not hang with those type of people why because I can wake up every morning and look in the mirror and motivate my self